Most Gen Z Filipinos Who Want to Marry Prefer to Do So After 35 — Survey

Manila, Philippines — Marriage rates in the Philippines continue to decline, and new data suggest that shifting attitudes among younger Filipinos—particularly Generation Z—are playing a key role in reshaping how and when Filipinos view marriage.

According to newly released government statistics, the number of registered marriages dropped by 7.8 percent in 2023, falling to 414,213 from 449,428 in 2022. The crude marriage rate likewise declined from 4.0 to 3.7 marriages per 1,000 population, signaling a broader national trend away from early or universal marriage.

A recent survey conducted by Arkipelago Analytics, which focused on Gen Z Filipinos, provides insight into the generational dynamics behind these figures. The study found that only 40 percent of Gen Z respondents expressed a desire to get married at all. Among those who do plan to marry, 60 percent said they prefer to do so after the age of 35—significantly later than the norms followed by previous generations.

“These findings indicate that Gen Z Filipinos are approaching marriage with greater intentionality,” said Anna Mae Yu Lamentillo, founder of Arkipelago Analytics. “Rather than following traditional timelines, many are prioritizing emotional readiness, personal goals, and long-term compatibility.”

The survey also showed that 55 percent of Gen Z respondents feel no pressure to marry, reflecting a growing emphasis on personal choice and autonomy. When asked about their reasons for marrying, most cited emotional and relational motivations—such as sharing life with someone they love and trust, having a lifelong partner, and valuing sexual compatibility—over traditional reasons like raising children, meeting family expectations, or fulfilling religious obligations.

Only a small portion of respondents identified religion, legal benefits, or financial stability as their primary motivations for marriage, underscoring a shift toward viewing marriage as a deeply personal commitment rather than a social requirement.

National data further reveal geographic and seasonal patterns. CALABARZON recorded the highest number of marriages in 2023, accounting for 14.6 percent of the total, followed by the National Capital Region at 12.5 percent and Central Luzon at 11.5 percent. The Bangsamoro Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao (BARMM) had the lowest share at 0.5 percent. February remained the most popular month for weddings, consistent with Valentine’s Day traditions.

Taken together, the data suggest that while marriage remains important to many Filipinos, it is no longer seen as a default life milestone—particularly among Gen Z. As younger adults continue to redefine relationships on their own terms, analysts say their values are likely to have a lasting impact on the future of marriage and family life in the Philippines.